Posts by Tali Shenfield

Dr. Tali Shenfield holds a PhD in Psychology from the University of Toronto and is a licensed school and clinical psychologist. She has taught at the University of Toronto and has worked at institutions including the Hospital for Sick Children, Hincks-Dellcrest Centre, TDSB, and YCDSB. Dr. Shenfield is the Founder and Clinical Director of Advanced Psychology Services.

How Children Feel When Parents Fight

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Every long-term relationship involves a certain amount of conflict. No two people agree on everything, so it’s normal for couples to occasionally argue over matters related to money, personal values, or plans for the future. Indeed, many experts believe that conflict can play an important role in maintaining a healthy relationship, provided that it doesn’t get out of ...

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How to Help Your Sensitive Child Manage Strong Feelings

Dr. Tali Shenfield

The way children react to stimuli is determined by both their genetics and their environment. Research conducted on identical twins has shown that about half of our traits are inherited, giving us our own intrinsic way of looking at the world. Neurodevelopmental disorders, like Autism and ADHD, can also contribute to the formation of prominent innate behaviours. If your child ...

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Supporting Adolescent Development: The Process of Shaping Identity

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Self-discovery is one of the hallmarks of adolescence. By age 12, young people begin the process of separating themselves from their parents and defining who they are as individuals. As they undertake this journey, they’re shaped by many different factors, including their familial and cultural values, the expectations of society, and their peers. Nonetheless, teens are active participants in their ...

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5 Common Problems Experienced By Gifted Children & Adolescents

Dr. Tali Shenfield

The idea that gifted kids can be at-risk comes as a surprise to many parents and educators; however, there’s substantial evidence showing that these children face unique (and sometimes daunting) challenges. Because giftedness is a form of asynchronous development, gifted children often struggle to reconcile their advanced intellectual abilities with their age-appropriate motor and social skills, resulting in frustration ...

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Developing Social Skills in Young Children

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Some children adapt readily to peer socialization, but many struggle to find acceptance and form strong bonds with other children. Sometimes, this difficulty is related to a learning or developmental disorder (like High Functioning Autism or ADHD), in which case your child should receive both professional and parental assistance in building better social skills. In other cases, kids flounder socially ...

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Balanced Parenting for Teens: Mastering the Most Effective Parenting Style

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Throughout many areas of our lives, balance is key to success. Whether it’s achieving an optimal work-life balance or eating a more balanced diet, happiness can often be found in the middle ground between extremes. Cultivating a parenting style that reflects this wisdom has been shown to be similarly fruitful: Teens who are raised with a careful blend of ...

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How to Let Your Teen Fail (and Help Her Bounce Back)

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Though many things change when our children cross the threshold into adolescence, our desire to protect them remains the same. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing—teens still need our support and guidance, after all—but you’ll need to be prepared to let go of some of the control you’re used to. Taking measured risks and confronting ...

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There is no “One Size Fits All” Approach to Child Development

Dr. Tali Shenfield

More often than not, parents live hectic and complicated lives. Naturally, because we’re already overburdened by complexity, easy answers can seem very appealing. This is especially true when it comes to understanding child development: Parents are often drawn to popular child-rearing strategies that focus on just one aspect of development. These theories generally state that by understanding a specific ...

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