Category: Raising Teens

Choosing the Best Parenting Style for Your Child

Dr. Tali Shenfield

One of the greatest challenges parents face when trying to cultivate a parenting style is adapting standard methods to suit the unique traits of their child. Though a consistent, balanced approach to parenting works most of the time, some children invariably require more (or less) discipline and guidance than others. Rules that are sensible when applied to a neurotypical child ...

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How to Handle Disagreements About Parenting

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Most people parent intuitively; their parenting choices are informed by their beliefs, personality type, and the way they were raised. When two parents have markedly different outlooks or backgrounds, disagreements over how to manage discipline and set boundaries can therefore become a real issue. If both parents remain inflexible in their stance, what started as a parent-child issue can quickly ...

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Are You a Lawnmower Parent? Time to Shift Gears!

Dr. Tali Shenfield

We all want to protect our children from disappointment and ensure they have the best possible opportunities in life, but lawnmower parents take these natural desires to extremes. Unlike helicopter parents, who closely monitor their children’s lives and offer sometimes excessive support, lawnmower parents proactively intervene in their children’s affairs. They may take drastic measures to achieve success ...

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Parent vs. Friend: Navigating the Delicate Balance

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Being your child’s best friend may seem like a hallmark of successful parenting, but the reality of this dynamic is far from optimal. Children and adults have vastly different needs, capabilities, and preferences, so they can’t function as peers. By default, kids need the adults in their lives to provide a sense of security, which requires a certain ...

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How To Tell Whether Your Child is Gifted

Sometimes classroom behavior problems signal giftedness. Brad and Karen were at their wits end. Their grade school children once again ...

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When Parents and Teens are in Deadlock Over Political Views: 6 Tips for Reconciliation

Politics has always been a controversial topic, but rarely has our political climate been as divisive as it is right ...

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How to Help Your Child Stop Lying

For parents, even the little white lies that children sometimes tell - e.g., claiming to have completed their homework ...

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Should You Stop Sharing Pictures of Your Children on Social Media?

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Ever since cameras became available to the average consumer, parents have been capturing - and sharing - images of their kids’ major milestones. Over the last decade, however, the way we share photos of our children has taken on a digital dimension that comes with a unique set of considerations. Sharing pictures of your children on social media can violate ...

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Parenting Through Stress: Raising Resilient, Happy Kids

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Though we think of childhood as being a carefree time of life, many children experience periods of stress. Like adults, kids can become anxious because they’re overwhelmed by commitments, dealing with social or family problems, or navigating significant life changes. According to the American Psychological Association, children can experience stress due to various reasons such as academic pressure, social ...

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How to Raise Children with Independent Views and a Critical Mind

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Over the last two decades, ideological polarization has become a prominent threat to democracy, education, and society as a whole. According to the Pew Research Center, partisan antipathy has been steadily increasing since the mid-1990s, with self-identified liberals and conservatives becoming more sharply divided in their beliefs - and more likely to see the other “side” as a significant ...

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Overcoming Adolescent Conflict: How To Build Respectful Relationships with Your Teen

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Raising an adolescent can make you feel like you have a stranger in your home: Your previously polite, obedient child starts to roll her eyes, make sarcastic remarks, and argue at the slightest provocation. Her moods change quickly, and she sometimes shuts you out without explaining why. With all of these changes, you may feel like your bond with your ...

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