Posts by Tali Shenfield

Dr. Tali Shenfield holds a PhD in Psychology from the University of Toronto and is a licensed school and clinical psychologist. She has taught at the University of Toronto and has worked at institutions including the Hospital for Sick Children, Hincks-Dellcrest Centre, TDSB, and YCDSB. Dr. Shenfield is the Founder and Clinical Director of Advanced Psychology Services.

The Problem With Potential: Why Parents Shouldn’t Focus on Giftedness

Dr. Tali Shenfield

As a culture, we place a great deal of emphasis on innate talent; we assume that certain people are born to be excellent artists, athletes, scientists, etc. The idea of success being predetermined by one’s genes feels reassuring for parents who think (or know) their child is gifted. After all, what parent doesn’t want to believe their child ...

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How to Stop Sibling Bullying: 5 Essential Strategies for Parents

Dr. Tali Shenfield

When bullying happens at school, most parents immediately recognize it as a problem. Bullying that occurs at home between siblings, on the other hand, is often normalized. Many parents aren’t sure where to draw the line between typical, minor sibling conflicts and genuine abuse, while others are unaware of the long-term damage sibling bullying can cause. Due to this ...

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Five Myths About Learning Disabilities

Dr. Tali Shenfield

The early signs of learning disabilities are often subtle and easily overlooked. These conditions may initially present as a difficulty with telling time, pronouncing certain words, writing by hand, or memorizing simple information. Over time, however, they have serious and far-reaching effects: Approximately 20% of students with learning disabilities drop out of school, compared to just 8% of students in the general ...

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8 Tips For Disciplining Your Gifted Child

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Knowing when and how to discipline a child is never easy, but gifted kids present unique challenges that require patience and careful consideration. With their combination of emotional intensity, keen language skills, and need for fairness, gifted children can seem rebellious and argumentative – but their behaviour is often driven by good intentions. By knowing what to expect when parenting a ...

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How to Help Your Child Develop Self-Regulation Skills

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Have you ever wondered why some kids are more prone to tantrums than others? Or why some children control their impulses with relative ease, while others struggle to restrain inappropriate comments and behaviour? How is it that two equally intelligent kids sometimes demonstrate such marked differences in their ability to plan, stay on track, and overcome frustration? Though we often ...

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How to Practice Social Situations with Your Child?

Dr. Tali Shenfield

  Having well-developed social skills is fundamental to achieving personal success and happiness. Social skills help kids express themselves, advocate for their needs, collaborate with others, and establish strong, fulfilling relationships. Without adequate social skills, children often become isolated and prone to emotional and behavioural problems, which may lead to more severe issues later in life. Kids learn the bulk ...

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9 Effective Ways to Show Empathy to Your Struggling Child

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Empathizing with your child when his behaviour is frustrating can be challenging, but it’s an essential part of being a supportive, trustworthy parent. When you empathize with your child, you let him know that you respect and value his feelings, even if you don’t always agree with how he handles them. You show him that you care about ...

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6 Tips For Discussing ADHD With Your Child’s Teacher

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Though most kids with ADHD demonstrate classic signs of the condition - like hyperactivity, inattention, and impulsivity - no two cases of ADHD are exactly alike. When your child has ADHD, it’s therefore important to discuss his specific symptoms and needs with his teacher. By knowing exactly how ADHD affects your child, the teacher can create effective social and ...

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