Category: Raising Teens

Practical tips on helping children cope with a divorce

Dr. Tali Shenfield

There is no one way in which children react to divorce; depending on the age of the children involved, the circumstances of the divorce, and their individual natures, the impacts of this major life-change can vary widely. That being said, there is a great deal parents can do to mitigate the potential harm of a divorce; as is the case ...

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How to Parent Spoiled Children

Dr. Tali Shenfield

The word “spoiled” has been used so extensively that its meaning seems, for many parents, hopelessly vague and indefinite. The concept is blurred both by generational differences and by the fact that the term “spoiled” can also have positive connotations—it's often associated with being indulged at Christmas and on birthdays, for instance, or with the attention of doting relatives. ...

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Rebuilding Trust: How to Handle Your Child’s Worst Mistakes

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Trust is one of the most fragile facets of any human relationship; it can take years to build and just minutes to break. For parents, losing trust is an especially complicated and painful phenomenon; not only must parents deal with their own feelings of betrayal when a child does something so unthinkable that the foundations of trust are shaken, they ...

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Emotional Regulation in Children

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Children, as any parent knows, can be baffling and unpredictable; they may tantrum seemingly out of nowhere, or develop stubborn behaviours (such as hitting a sibling or adamantly refusing to tidy up after themselves) and maintain them irrespective of the consequences and the pleas of adults. When such events occur, parents are invariably left wondering, “Why? Why is my child ...

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How To Tell Whether Your Child is Gifted

Sometimes classroom behavior problems signal giftedness. Brad and Karen were at their wits end. Their grade school children once again ...

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Psycho-Educational Assessments: Guidelines for Parents

You may have been approached by your child’s teacher or you may have noticed yourself that your child is ...

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Psychological Issues Faced by Adopted Children

While most of the issues adopted children face while growing up differ little from the challenges experienced by non-adopted children, ...

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Pause, Breathe, Smile… Repeat

Marina Heifetz

Pause… Breathe… Smile… those are the 3 magic words I constantly try to hone in with my 5-year-old. Do they work? With reminders and on a good day, yes. Otherwise… not so much. Surprisingly, while trying to teach these to my son, I ended up using these words as my own personal motto to help stay calm and in control. As ...

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Should You Consider Seeking a Psychoeducational Assessment for Your Child?

Dr. Tali Shenfield

If your child is struggling behaviourally or academically, his school may recommend that he take what is known as a psycho-educational (“psy-ed”) assessment - or you may wish to seek such an assessment independently. This comprehensive evaluation is designed to measure a child’s cognitive processing abilities (including logical reasoning, memory, attention, and executive functioning), his current level of academic ...

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How to Support Children During a Divorce

Anna Kaminsky

While there is no way to make divorce “easy” on a child, there are ways to keep a divorce from damaging a child in a severe, lasting way. To the eyes of a vulnerable child, there is a world of difference between two parents separating amicably — while reassuring the child that he or she will remain important to both of ...

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Teens, Social Media and the Illusion of Perfection

Anna Kaminsky

For many teenagers, the pressure to be “perfect” is an unavoidable reality; whether it's envying those students who appear to ace every subject at school with ease, longing to be one of the popular kids, or wishing to rank among the star athletes, almost all teens have experienced the pain of feeling “less than” at some point. While this is ...

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