Posts by Tali Shenfield

Dr. Tali Shenfield holds a PhD in Psychology from the University of Toronto and is a licensed school and clinical psychologist. She has taught at the University of Toronto and has worked at institutions including the Hospital for Sick Children, Hincks-Dellcrest Centre, TDSB, and YCDSB. Dr. Shenfield is the Founder and Clinical Director of Advanced Psychology Services.

What to Expect when Your Child is Grieving

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Watching a child grieve is one of the most painful experiences in any parent’s life. If your child has gone through a difficult loss, you may be concerned that he’ll never return to his normal self. Many parents worry that their child’s grief-related nightmares, social withdrawal, apathy, and emotional issues won’t completely subside with time, but ...

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How to Teach Your Child to Communicate Effectively with Other Kids

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Communicating with young children can be challenging even for adults, so it’s no surprise that kids under five often have difficulty talking to one another. If you have a small child, you’ve probably been in situations where your child appeared to be happily interacting with a sibling or peer, only for one party to suddenly get upset or ...

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Managing Aggression in Children: How to Stop Your Child from Fighting

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Over the last 50 years, aggressive behaviour has become more prevalent among children and adolescents of both genders. This change has occurred alongside other issues, like increased anxiety and greater problems with attention and organization, that leave many children in a perpetually reactive, high-stress state. Without adequate healthy coping skills, kids dealing with these challenges sometimes use fighting to discharge the ...

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Effective Parenting Techniques for Overly Assertive Children

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Does talking to your child sometimes feel like speaking to a brick wall? While we all want our kids to express their opinions, some children assert themselves by refusing to acknowledge other points of view, which can be extremely frustrating. If your child has a domineering communication style, correcting him probably feels impossible, no matter how wrong he is. His ...

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The Importance of Play in Social Skills Development

Dr. Tali Shenfield

In modern Western society, we typically view play as being separate from learning. However, while children’s games appear casual and spontaneous, they serve many crucial developmental functions. When kids engage in unstructured social activities, they use their imaginations to simulate diverse experiences, which serve as a model for real-life situations. They learn how to negotiate and cooperate with other ...

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Gentle Parenting: 3 Effective Techniques for Compassionate Child Discipline

Dr. Tali Shenfield

We all want our children to treat others with kindness, empathy, and compassion. Many of the rules and boundaries we set are designed to teach our kids what is (and isn’t) socially appropriate, and we constantly strive to inform our children about the ways their actions can affect others. However, the manner in which we discipline our children has ...

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Parenting Styles & Strategies that Work Best with Gifted Children

Dr. Tali Shenfield

If your child is gifted, you probably already know that highly talented children have special needs in the classroom. What many parents don’t realize, however, is that gifted kids also require a modified approach to parenting. Ideally, the way you guide your child at home should complement and enhance the educational opportunities your child receives at school. The optimal ...

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The Importance of a Healthy Parent-Child Relationship

Dr. Tali Shenfield

The essence of a thriving family dynamic lies in a healthy parent-child relationship. This bond shapes a child’s future relationships, self-esteem, behaviours, and abilities to cope with stress and adversity. According to the research studies, this is pivotal to not only a child’s cognitive skills but also their psychological and emotional wellbeing. The Foundation of Parent-Child Relationships When ...

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A Primer on Child and Adolescent Anxiety

Anxiety disorders are found in children much more often than many people realize; ten to twenty percent of all children ...

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When Aspergers Syndrome goes Undiagnosed

Autism has been in the spotlight for many years.  In movies, television, and novels, autistic characters are portrayed to have ...

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When Parents and Teens are in Deadlock Over Political Views: 6 Tips for Reconciliation

Politics has always been a controversial topic, but rarely has our political climate been as divisive as it is right ...

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