Posts by Tali Shenfield

Dr. Tali Shenfield holds a PhD in Psychology from the University of Toronto and is a licensed school and clinical psychologist. She has taught at the University of Toronto and has worked at institutions including the Hospital for Sick Children, Hincks-Dellcrest Centre, TDSB, and YCDSB. Dr. Shenfield is the Founder and Clinical Director of Advanced Psychology Services.

Is Your Child a Gaming Addict?

Dr. Tali Shenfield

From fun to addiction. How to deal with your child's obsession with gaming? Imagine the horror – You are looking across the breakfast table at your 12 year-old and you suddenly realize beyond a doubt that you are staring into the bleary eyes of an addict.  Questions flood your mind. How could this have happened? Why didn’t I notice it before? ...

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Optimizing Your Child’s Executive Functioning

Dr. Tali Shenfield

As popular media started using psychological term 'executive functions', more and more parents are learning about the importance of increasing executive functioning capabilities as a critical developmental stepping stone in virtually every area of child’s life. But what is ‘executive functioning’ and how does it relate to your child’s development into a teenager and young adult? First, executive ...

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Effective Discipline Methods for Proactive Parenting

Dr. Tali Shenfield

So here you are. Your child has done something wrong or hasn’t done something they should have done. In some way your child has not behaved as you want them to. For many parents this signals a need for discipline. And for most of parents this more often than not means negative discipline. It means taking something away such ...

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Teaching Children How to Manage Conflict

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Many years ago I remember a New Yorker cartoon depicting two parents bringing their child to school for the first time and talking to the principal. To paraphrase what I remember from the cartoon their comment was something like this: “We have raised Johnny so that he has never experienced a harsh word or any negativity in his whole life. ...

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What to Do When Your Child is Being Bullied

Dr. Tali Shenfield

Even if you feel that your child could never be the target of bullying and you've ingrained into their mind your admonishments against bullying others, bullying is something that every parent should know as much about as possible. Bullying affects not just the bullies and their victims. It affects everyone. Bullying can tear apart a classroom, a school or an ...

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How Parents Can Deal With Temper Tantrums and Autistic Meltdowns In Children With Autism

Dr. Tali Shenfield

There are so many challenges for parents with autistic kids and tantrums are just par for the course.  Whether you are in the sanctity of home or out in public, your child’s tantrums seem to broadcast your anxiety and insecurities as a parent.  That sense of helplessness mixed with anger and embarrassment is never a good combination. Without question, ...

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How to Manage Anxiety and Depression in Children and Teens with ADHD

Dr. Tali Shenfield

The Link Between ADHD and Depression in Teens Raising a child or teen with ADHD/ADD can seem quite overwhelming, but when these conditions are combined with a co-occurring mood disorder this can truly be a challenging situation for any parent. This, however, is a very real challenge for over half of the families of children with an ADHD diagnosis. ...

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How to Develop an “Inner Coach” in teens with ADHD and Executive Dysfunction

Dr. Tali Shenfield

We love our children and when we see them struggling with school or in their social lives we want to do everything we can to help them. This is especially true if they have any one of a number of developmental challenges such as ADHD/ADD, executive dysfunction, a learning disability or a disorder on the autism spectrum. Many of ...

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